In love...... is he really?

well here i am again asking away... the guy that im in love with is back home in india til september. he called the other day and we talked he says he honestly loves me and there is no other woman for him. do i believe him since his culture is so different than mine in the u.s.? how should i feel. i am empty without him here i am totally in love with him. people keep saying how he is proably married already since over there they are ordained marriages. but he says no... how can i find out for sure is there some way on the computer that i can check it out just to ure myself and know that i am not just setting myself up for another heartache? i am confused and in love at the same time.. i want to spend the rest of my life with him and want to get married but he hasnt talked anything about marriage.... just when i asked if he ever thought about marriage or kids he said he never thought about it because was always working.. well i dont want to be the one to ask him to marry me. help....